I got my hand on a book which changed my life, called “Women who love too much” and written by Robin Norwood. Inspired by the things we found about us after reading it, I decided together with Valentina Dragomir, my psychotherapist colleague, to form a group for women which give everything in a relationship and get nothing in return.
How did it all start?
First of all, this book structured perfectly the pattern for the woman which is used to fall in love for emotionally unavailable men, woman which lives love directly proportional with suffering.
The woman who loves too much is attracted a lot to the image of a man with problems, to the idea that he needs her in order to live and improve his life. She is attracted to the man’s problem, and not necessarily the man himself. The reality is that he really needs a woman like her – understanding and willing to confront anything for him and to satisfy his needs, her actually being a resource for him to maintain his addictions. She needs his addiction in order to have a purpose in the relationship – that being to save him. They are a perfect match. Him, the victim, and her, his savior.
We know these things from our experience as psychotherapists, but they have never had the same clarity that they have now. This lecture was an intense exercise with ourselves and we want to share it with you.
What are we following?
In this step, we intend to discover ourselves and our needs, within a framework of mutual support and development. Also, we will concentrate on replacing the unhealthy functioning mechanisms in a couple with ones beneficial for oneself.
We wish to contribute to a therapeutic process in which you access your inner resources in order to heal and repair any problem that you might have in the relationship.
Whom is it for?
If you are reading this article and all your attention is here, it might be possible that you are a woman who loves too much. If you have the tendency to take the blame, to be the good and invisible woman, it is possible that this is addressed to you. We are heading towards the persons which are dependent on the pain and familiarity of a relationship void of satisfactions.
What is needed to participate?
In case you find yourself in this pattern and want to take part in the group of women who love too much, send us an e-mail at one of the following addresses: cristinasimonapreda@gmail.com or office@psihosensus.eu. We required your name, age and what motivates you to sign up. The group will consist of a maximum of 12 persons.
Meeting duration: 3 hours
Price: 85 Ron/day
Location: will be communicated via email.
Contact: You can either get in touch with me through mail – cristinasimonapreda@gmail.com / or phone number: 0767 671 013, or with Valentina Dragomir – office@psihosensus.eu / 0773 394 730 – PsihoSensus.eu founder and integrative psychotherapist accredited by “Colegiul Psihologilor din Romania”.
Let’s start together on a therapeutic journey for the discovery of authentic love!
Simona Preda 
